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Editorial: The Pilipino-American Experience and Being "Pilipino-American"

Everyone has their own definition of being a Pilipino-American
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September 18, 2009

Guest Contribution by Marc Malabanan

Being a Pilipino-American is an experience that is unique to each of us, so it doesn't make sense for us to try to generalize who we are and our culture in a few bullet points. I believe what is common amongst all of us is that, whether we are conscious of it or not, we are rooted in our "homeland" Pilipino culture; how we as individuals integrate that into our American experience is what makes us unique. Being able to express what we have experienced, network with those that share that experience, and learn from the experience of others is the definition of "culture". Therefore Pilipino-American culture is an ever-progressing and ever-changing definition that is influenced by those who are willing to contribute to it. 

 

Many Pilipino-Americans find the idea of “How Pilipino are you?” as a very intimidating question. A person that was raised to speak English only and who may not have been as active in "discovering their roots", two aspects that certainly hold true in my life growing up, may feel that they're not Pilipino enough to be part of the community or group. Conversely, that community or group may look down at the person who may not be as connected to their Pilipino heritage and look at them as being too assimilated with "white" American culture. Growing up in a predominately Portuguese community, I was involved in activities that many of my Pilipino-American peers weren't into at the time. Therefore, the lack of that feeling of connection with the Pilipino-American community was something I had to live with on a constant basis throughout my childhood and adolescence.  

While it may be the case that person's knowledge of Pilipino history may vary, it doesn't take away the fact that their experience as a Pilipino-American is just as important as the next person's. If we are to limit the contributing members and expression of the culture to those who are "most knowledgeable", it narrows the definition of what the culture is about. Also, the level of progression of the culture is limited to the people that have the perceived control of this vision. Having this skewed notion of Pilipino-American culture not only contributes to the stereotypes that the general public may have, but it also will do one of two things to the Pilipino-American community: force those to conform to this vision, or feel segregated and outcast from it. 

Having an organization or community able to be aware of the ever-changing landscape of society, to accept of all Pilipino-Americans and their experiences, and to provide them a venue for open discussion and expression is very much important and relevant for Pilipino-Americans today and of future generations. As rooted as we are in our homeland Pilipino culture, we are also shaped by our experiences as Americans. That experience is something that should be openly shared. That experience is what makes us Pilipino-American. What it all comes down to is this: How can we freely express who we are?

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UnsceneMedia's picture

I'm really glad to read that "it doesn't make sense for us to try to generalize who we are" in the article because I think that's a very important step in combating the problems we have with assimilation.

Much like the rest of the commentary in this thread, I have a very similar upbringing - an English-only speaking, suburban-raised Pilipino who had little interaction with the culture aside from Pilipino basketball leagues. And even then it was weird with my warming up doing layups and the other guys practicing their aerials. Man!

Anyway, formal orgs have definitely helped me find a niche and calling to my roots - after getting past the initial intimidation/judgment/chismis of it all. Along the same lines, this is why I'm glad (hmm...running theme here) that there's a realization that everyone's experiences, whether you carry tons of Pilipino street cred or not, is important. There's no hierarchy to knowledge, its pursuit or even the path to which you try to get others involved. We can all learn from each other despite where we're at along that journey and exponentially evolve what it means to be "Pilipino American".

By UnsceneMedia on September 20, 2009 - 12:04pm
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I grew up without having learned much of the Pilipino language. I didn't really feel isolated from any Pilipino culture, but I felt like there were others that were more connected than me. I've taken measures as an adult to actively learn about "what it means to be a Pilipino," but we really can't discount anyone's experiences as an American/Pilipino American. I feel that even my experiences outside of my Tagalog class or my college club can contribute to what many of us consider to be the Pil-Am culture. It's great to have discussions because many of our experiences though not distinctly "Pilipino" are still shared amongst many "Pilipino Americans."

By tsud123 on September 20, 2009 - 11:37am
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I completely agree. Having a place where Pilipino-Americans are able to express freely who they are without the intimidation would be so beneficial. Experiences do vary, and I must admit, I've felt the intimidation in crowds who do know more than me. Even though now I am "knowledgeable" of the history and language, I wasn't before. I use to just stay quiet and modestly nod or just laugh when everyone else was, even though I didn't understand. I felt like I couldn't share my intake on things until I learned more and because I felt like this I did the learning on my alone. You're right, every experience as a Pilipino-American is important.

An accepting community/org. to all ages would be wonderful. With my college club, I was able to be myself, feel prideful and learn more about my culture. BUT I didn't feel such acceptance till I reached my young adulthood. I wish I had something like that when I was younger. I also hope that there will be something like my college club when I'm older.

Thank you for your editorial! It makes me want to reach out to my Fil-Am community more!

By tercialynn on September 19, 2009 - 2:45am
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I'm pretty much in the same boat you were in...I only know English, had no interest in Pilipino culture at all growing up, and was the token Asian in my group of friends. Going through the halls of my high school, I would get knowing glances from the Filipinos crowding them. They knew me, and I knew them, but there was never any interaction.

I agree with your points, in that some people grow up interacting constantly with the culture, but it takes a formal organization or community to really bring someone in to it. Without my college org, I probably could've gone through life completely oblivious to my background. I can't say I'd be any worse off...I was pretty satisfied up to college, after all, but I don't regret the choice I made.

Especially within the Pil-Am community, which is known for being prone to assimilation, every generation is going to face their own unique obstacles in reconnecting with their roots. Common bonding is going to be the best way that we define ourselves now and in the future.

By Ryne on September 18, 2009 - 4:24pm

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