that questions crosses everyone's mind at one point or another.. wondering what would life be one decision is made over another? whether to change your plans last minute for that one opportunity or trip to potentially have the time of your life? whether to move to another city to start over and possibly lose any established relationships youve cultivated over the years? whether to do what you love for the rest of your life or do what youre expected to do from society? whether to take that chance on a friendship and see if it can be more that 'just friends'? its that common phrase 'fear of failure' that holds back so many people from what they truly deserve.. although i am a catholic i am a true believer in karma in the sense that you get what you deserve.. treat someone kindly, you will be treated as such.. treat someone badly, sooner or later it will come back to haunt you.. it took me a couple touches above 20 years and a few unexpected adjustments to realize that to really live life and be satisfied is to take chances.. i mean, how can you truly know something unless you go through it yourself? mistakes will happen from time to time, but it can only be better because now you know and can learn and build on it.. if you truly want something, just go for it and live with the results.. again, there will be some disappointments along the way but i feel that it would be better to know something other than question what could have been for the rest of your life.. personally, with my new outlook on life i have been able to experience and know things that i previously would never have had a chance to see through and that mindset has compelled me to blurb this out to the BW fam..
take chances and never settle with 'what if?'.. youd be pretty surprised & satisfied with the results.. ;)
