Guest Contribution by Francis Aquino

Uso pa ba ang Ligawan?
(Is courtship still being practiced?)
When I was trying to research a clear cut definition of “ligawan,” which is the tagalog word for traditional Pilipino courtship, I came across a completely different word. I found “lugawan,” a fast food place that serves “lugaw,” or rice porridge. I don’t know how this is related to my topic, but I just find it funny. And all of a sudden I became hungry.
The research wasn’t that easy. I had to really dig deep to get a formal definition of “ligawan.” I don’t know if this sends me a sign that the traditional Pilipino courtship isn’t happening anymore, especially if you are a Pilipino who hasn’t been living in the Philippines for quite a while, or at all. Or is the art of courtship really dead in this fast paced, internet generation?
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